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George Nordahl's avatar

Great read, and I do fully agree that there should be two way communication. Servers and somms don’t rely on telepathy after all, nor should we expect them to. That said, with regard to the upsell comment or alternate suggestions, that comment was specifically aimed at situations where I have already told the server what I want. At that stage, it’s no longer their responsibility I think to steer me in a better direction, but rather make sure that I get what I have ordered. With the don’t serve my wine for me, I agree, that might not be for everyone, and I’m not necessarily blaming the staff in the event where their management forces them to. That said, there is usually pretty decent contextual clues that would indicate we would rather be in charge of our own wine pours that I do think an adequately observant waiter could pick up on. I will of course not become belligerent should someone pour for me, it is a minor issue at the end of the day, but one that does come back to sloppy, uneven and heavy handed pours that don’t take into account where the guests are at with their wine. As for opening a bottle table side, I think that can be a fun experience, if done well. Cringeworthy if done by someone who clearly finds pulling a cork out to be a challenge, despite having a perfectly good waiters friend to hand.

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Clementine Communications's avatar

I particularly appreciated the emphasis on communication as a two-way street and the forward-looking take on by-the-glass programs as essential for building curiosity and accessibility in today’s wine culture.

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